Tips on How to Deal with Haters

I read a post in MBP asking some advice in dealing with bashers. I can relate to her 100% because I myself experienced it and until now I received negative comments on my blog. Well, sabi nga ng asawa ko, iba na ang sikat marami ng bumabatikos. He has a point right.

Sharing with you some tips on how to deal with them. (O baka may mag react ha, eto kasi ang ginagawa ko every time I read or encounter bashers) I hope makatulong rin sa inyo.  Hihi.

1.     Learn the art of DEDMATOLOGY

Well, at first mahirap dedmahin yung mga negative comments or personal attack sa blog mo, but hey! Think about it, the more na pansinin mo sila the more silang nagkakaroon ng lakas ng loob para inisin ka. So pag dinedma mo sila, for sure titigil rin sila sa pag ba-bash sayo. Well, kung hindi man sila tumigil at least di ka bumaba sa level nila.

2.     Stay Positive and Focus on your Dreams

Avoid Negativity in your life para magaan ang pasok ng blessings. Focus on your dreams, focus on your writings and yaan mo silang maingit sa dami ng biyayang natatangap mo. Basta ikaw concentrate ka lang and always look forward. Kita mo pag nakikita ka nilang unti-unti mong nararating or natutupad mga parangap mo, for sure instead of ibash ka nila, baka gayahin ka pa nila. IDOL!

3.     Keep Them Closer

If you can’t beat them, Join them. If you can’t join them, beat them. I do this recently, and I guess effective sya. My mind is now functioning very well unlike before na iniyakan ko talaga yung mga masasakit na nabasa ko sa blog ko to the point na I stop writing for about 2-3 month, but now I can handle it na. Some of them friends ko na (well, I hope di nila ako pinaplastic) pero at least nalalaman ko bawat galaw nila at nalalaman rin nila bawat galaw ko, lahat ng blessings ko alam rin nila at dahil dun, mas lalo silang maiingit at mag leave ng mga mga negative comments, ibig sabihin, tataas na naman yung view count ng post ko, tataas na naman yung page views ko, in short sikat na naman blog ko. Yahoo..

4.     If No. 3 is not possible, then Keep them Away

Keep them away? Pwede ba yun? Of course pwede, pwede mo naman I restrict yung mga pwedeng mag comment sau or pwede mong basahin muna yung mga comments nila bago iapproved to post eh. In that case, you have the authority kung ano lang ang pwede mong iallow na comment sa post/blog mo. Simple lang right? Pero still mababasa mo parinyung mga nega comments, well go  back to No. 1.

And always remember na you cannot please everybody, meron at meron talagang mga tao na ayaw sayo and just accept the  fact na ganon sila. Kaya ako, marami man akong bashers, wala akong pakielam. I just focus my attention to all the blessings na natatangap ko, to my family and friends na andyan for me. So that’s it pancit.