When I marry my husband 14 months ago, it
feels like I am a Queen. Every day is a sweet learning process
living with each other and our weekday mornings make half of me want to go to
work full of inspiration while the other half of me just wants to stay at home
with him.
Ours is not a perfect relationship, it has ups and down.
I know every married couple also encounter some misunderstanding that lead
sometimes to a big fight. So far, I’m proud to say that we haven’t experience a
big fight and hopefully, if this thing will happen to us, I know God will lead
us in the right way. As they say, you will not totally know your partner not
until you live in one roof, even if you’re together for almost a decade it is
so much different when you are married. We've been together for 6 years before
we get married, there are times that I realized that Ian is so different during
our bf/gf moments and now that he’s my husband. Well, I will not enumerate it
one by one; I don’t want to say negative words against my husband because like
me he’s not a perfect person and no one is perfect always remember that. But if
you will ask me, I love his attitude now especially the way he treats me.
Advantage rin ata kasi buntis ako.. Hehe.
Anyway, we had petty quarrel last week and for the first
time I seek for our ninang’s advice on what to do. I don’t want to cry because
it will affect our baby and I need to calm down and control my emotions. (Remember,
all pregnant women experience hormonal change during this period). I follow all
her advice and pray to the Lord for his guidance before I sleep. Our ninang promised
me that she will talk to my husband the following day. So fast forward.. I
usually at home before 6pm, relax and have some quality time with my baby
before I prepare our dinner, that day I’m so upset because we’re still not
okay. Hayz! But after few hours, my husband arrived. He kissed me and my tummy
then he handed me this box of cookies.
Simple act but I almost cry because I really appreciate
his effort. He said “I’m sorry” and I reply “Sorry accepted”. That very moment,
I really felt that our baby is also happy because she keeps on moving inside my
tummy. Siguro sinasabi ni baby habang nagtatatalon, “Yehey, bati na sila mommy
and daddy”. Hehe.
While lying on our bed, we talked about what happened to
us and promise not to do it again anymore. We need to be more patient with each
other especially during these days. I need him to support me more for I
encounter physical and emotional changes due to my pregnancy. I really Thank
God for guiding our marriage and for our Ninang Lei who shows her support
during this adjustment period.
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