I remember when we were preparing our big day, there are some people told
us that it’s so impractical to start and build a family without being this or
that, without having this or that, etc. etc. etc. Para bang nananakot sa
pagkakaroon ng asawa.. Hayz! But hearing those words, I was even more
encouraged to go ahead and beat the odds; now, three months later, we beat the
odds all right because God loves us and not because we’re some perfect couple
straight from fiction.
Anyway, today is our day. So no more negative thoughts and let’s just
focus on the positive vibes. 3 months of being married and 75 months of being
together is incredible! I remember my husband’s personal vow during our
wedding, he said that our wedding date is the most important, memorable and
perfect date, why? because “7.24.12” means, 7 days of laughter and happiness,
24 hours of fruitful life and 12 months of intimate love. O ikaw ba naman
malilimutan mo pa yung “7/24/12”? For sure hindi na..
Three months after our wedding, there are lots of things that we
accomplished. We rented a house for the two of us, we bought major household furniture,
we traveled abroad, we already know how to budget our expenses, or in short, we
already know how to be independent and living together on our own as husband
and wife.
Whenever I get home before Ian does, I maximize my alone time by
watching television or prepare some food at the kitchen while I wait for him
that's because I imposed upon myself to never pay attention to anything else
when we're both at home. We watch television together and curdle each other
during commercial break, but there are times when the tv is on, it only means
one thing: Ian is busy reading Manga Online and I’m not. He never has idle time,
that’s my man. Sya na ang pinaka busy tao gabi gabi..:p
There are also times that I would like to watch movie at Cinema
One or Teleserye, but I can’t because my husband gives his full attention watching
basketball game.. Gggrrr… Ang masama pa nito, hawak pa nya yung remote control!
Sometimes, I told him jokingly that I am also the owner of that television and
for that reason, I also have the right to watch whatever and whenever I want to.
Syempre, conjugal property na yun. Haha. Pero syempre, wala parin akong
magagawa, General sya eh, Kumander lang ako..
But at the end of the day while lying on our bed, we prioritize
conversations. We ask each other what happened on that day, we also discuss
some issues about our relationship, our future plans and what I really love to
do is we pray together before we sleep. I lead the prayer while he response. We
prayed Our Father, Angels of God, Prayer for Healing by Fr. Fernando Suarez and
our own personal prayer. After that, Hubby will kiss me 4 times on my lips while
saying, “Good Night”, “Sweet Dreams”, “Sleep Tight” and “Iloveyou Honey”.
Every morning, I wake up early, say a simple prayer, give my
husband (still sleeping) mornings kisses and prepare our breakfast and baon for
lunch. As soon as he wake up and before eating our breakfast, he will kiss me
on my lips and whisper “Good Morning”. Ang sweet db?! Nakakawala ng pagod yung
smile nya every morning samahan mo pa ng kiss! After our breakfast, we do our
assigned task; hubby will wash the dishes while I collect all waste in the trashcan
and put it in one garbage bag. Hubby will get our towels while I prepare his
clothes to wear, and so on and so forth. But what really makes me feel so kilig
everyday is that hubby always put my engagement and wedding ring on my finger while
saying “Take this ring as sign of my love, loyalty and fidelity” then kiss on
my lips. Kilig! Super dami kong gustong i-share with you guys but I think
kulang ang 1 column for this one but I promise I will post our other bonding
moments in our home.
Okay, pahabol lang.. Hihi.. Here are the activities that we usually
do during weekends, every Saturday we are schedule to clean our house then
movie marathon and on Sunday Ian and I will fold the washed clothes (We do our
laundry every Friday Night) and last but definitely not the least, we attend
the holy mass.
This is my life now, this is my happiness. I love every detail in
my life at this moment and I thank the Lord our God every day for giving me
this life that I dreamt ever since. I’m so blessed to have Ian to train with;
he’s assertive and humble, and also very aware of God as center of our
marriage. Thank you Lord for all the blessings that we received and will
receive. And if you will ask us, “What lies ahead,
after marriage? We simply say, we don’t know…. What’s important is we’re facing
it together with God on our side. “
Dearest
Honey, we just turn three months today. It may sound cliché but it really feels
like I have known you forever. Thank you for tolerating my nonsense and most
importantly, thank you for always being there. You provide a listening ear
whenever I needed one and you are a wonderful confidant. Every moment spent
with you become a piece of precious memory because I treasure every moment with
you. You are the man beyond my dreams, the man I would marry again, the first
one I think about when I wake up and the last one I think about when I go to
bed. The more time I spend with you
the more I find myself deeper in love with you. I love you and I love us
together. Thank you for always pushing me to pray and
get closer to God. You are the bravest man I know.
Thank
you for everything.. iloveyou!
Happy 3rd Wedding Monthsary Honey! Iloveyou so much!
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